Our Rough Draft Season 1: Episode 7
Parenting
In this episode, Denise Waters and Tim Waters dig into the beautiful mess of raising three boys together. They talk about parenting from a distance, the impact of deployment on family relationships, and what it takes to keep siblings connected through intentional habits and shared memories. With honesty and a bit of humor, they reflect on roles, expectations, and what really anchors a family when the ground feels shaky.
Show Notes.
What We Talk About:
Parenting doesn’t stop when kids aren’t physically present.
How distance and service reshape parent‑child and sibling connections.
The power of sibling bonds built through deliberate time and rituals.
Shifting parenting roles and creating a strong support system together.
Quote of the Episode:
“You’re never done parenting.”
Conversation Starters:
How do you maintain connection with your children during busy or distant seasons?
What small, intentional experience has created a lasting memory in your family?
How are you and your partner navigating shifting parenting roles?
Resources & Mentions:
BoyMom by Ruth Whippman — A thought‑provoking look at raising boys in today’s culture and parenting with empathy and awareness.
Parenting resources from the Gottman Institute — Evidence‑based tools on communication, emotional health, and sibling relationships.
10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People by David Yeager — A research‑based guide to supporting young people ages 10‑25, focusing on respect, status, and mentor mindset rather than control. (link)
Connect & Reflect:
Share a favorite memory or small routine that helps your kids feel seen and connected. Tag us @theroughdraft with your reflection or parenting insight.
Want more stories about connection, family, and growth? Visit deniseleighwaters.com/ourroughdraft.
Mini Moment:
Tim shares the story about the card he received — a simple object that became a meaningful symbol of their family journey.
Try This:
This week, intentionally plan one shared experience with your children — whether in person or remote — and focus on the quality of connection more than the activity itself.
