Our Rough Draft Season 1: Episode 7

Parenting

In this episode, Denise Waters and Tim Waters dig into the beautiful mess of raising three boys together. They talk about parenting from a distance, the impact of deployment on family relationships, and what it takes to keep siblings connected through intentional habits and shared memories. With honesty and a bit of humor, they reflect on roles, expectations, and what really anchors a family when the ground feels shaky.

Show Notes.

What We Talk About:

  • Parenting doesn’t stop when kids aren’t physically present.

  • How distance and service reshape parent‑child and sibling connections.

  • The power of sibling bonds built through deliberate time and rituals.

  • Shifting parenting roles and creating a strong support system together.

Quote of the Episode:

“You’re never done parenting.”

Conversation Starters:

  • How do you maintain connection with your children during busy or distant seasons?

  • What small, intentional experience has created a lasting memory in your family?

  • How are you and your partner navigating shifting parenting roles?

Resources & Mentions:

  • BoyMom by Ruth Whippman — A thought‑provoking look at raising boys in today’s culture and parenting with empathy and awareness.

  • Parenting resources from the Gottman Institute — Evidence‑based tools on communication, emotional health, and sibling relationships.

  • 10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People by David Yeager — A research‑based guide to supporting young people ages 10‑25, focusing on respect, status, and mentor mindset rather than control. (link)

Connect & Reflect:

Share a favorite memory or small routine that helps your kids feel seen and connected. Tag us @theroughdraft with your reflection or parenting insight.
Want more stories about connection, family, and growth? Visit deniseleighwaters.com/ourroughdraft.

Mini Moment:

Tim shares the story about the card he received — a simple object that became a meaningful symbol of their family journey.

Try This:
This week, intentionally plan one shared experience with your children — whether in person or remote — and focus on the quality of connection more than the activity itself.

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